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Another kid in town is trying to build a social app after watching The Social Network. Well, that movie was a kind of inspiration, but do you know what truly inspired me? The motivational feed of LinkedIn. That feed is supercalifragilisticexpialidocious.
Hello, beautiful people on the internet.I’m Ritik, founder of Bondub. Not building another social app, but a space to help you build and grow real relationships that matter.Before jumping into the problem statements, I want to share some insights related to the industry.
This industry runs on the attention economy. Our attention is monetized through algorithms that are designed to keep us on platforms longer and serve the most relevant advertisements. In return, we get dopamine hits. That cheap pleasure rewires our brains to perform tasks that are not natural and often anti-social.
The reason I say social apps are anti-social is simple.As humans, we are not meant to push endless feeds and consume infinite content.We are meant to have a social circle.We want to have a sense of belonging.We are curious beings. We collaborate. We build. We aspire.
But on the other hand, numbers on profiles and feeds are ruling our emotions. Anxiety and depression are just small side effects.
Social apps aren’t social. They promised to bring us closer, but somehow they are keeping us in isolation.People in isolation spend more time on the platform.More time means more ads can be served.More ads mean more money on the table.
The Cold Start Problem**
As I was building Bondub, I read The Cold Start Problem by Andrew Chen. A must-read for any founding team building a networked product.
A networked product means the value of the product grows with the number of people using it. Users add compounding value. People bring more people. People spend more time.
The best example? The telephone. A telephone with no one on the other end is useless.
That’s why a networked product has two parts.One is the product.The other is the network.
You’ll see in a bit why I’m telling you all this. Just stick with me.
The design psychology of a product shapes how we behave.
If a product is built to trigger engagement, it will show content designed to hijack your attention.If a product is built to help you consume content, it will push you deeper into consumption.
So, what are most social platforms really?
Platforms like Facebook, Instagram, X (formerly Twitter), and LinkedIn are designed around content. Their core mechanism for visibility and relationships revolves around what you post.
But here’s the catch.
These platforms don’t care about the quality of your relationships.They care about quantity.They don’t prioritize you or your connections.
We’ve all become content creators.Creating, consuming, and engaging is now a cycle.We’ve become passive consumers.
And the worst part? Only 5 to 7 percent of the content we see is from our actual social circle. The rest is from the creators.The same goes the other way. When we post something, only 3 to 5 percent of our followers even see it. The algorithm decides who sees what.
That means we don’t even own our own connections.Even with hundreds or thousands of connections, we barely know them.So why would they care when we are in need?
Platforms like WhatsApp, Telegram, Zoom, and Discord focus on communication. These platforms keep the close ones closer.
Here, relationship-building happens through messages, voice, or video.Texting is the most common form. It’s low effort and works in most cases. But it has also made it easy to spam. Cold DMs became the shortcut to networking.
But the more senses you involve, the better the impact.Voice is better than text.Video is better than voice.Face-to-face is still the gold standard.
Communication is a core part of building relationships.But it’s not enough.There’s more.
A few weeks back, when I did a soft launch on Reddit, many people asked. Why Bondub? Why not just use LinkedIn or Twitter?
Here’s my take.
These platforms are good for visibility. They are great for communication. But they are not designed for real relationships.
Their design is made for advertisers, creators, and brands.Not for you. Not for your growth. Not for your trust circle.
You can build an audience. You can create viral posts.But you cannot build real social capital there.
Social capital is an invisible asset.It’s the value you get from your relationships.It’s about who you know. Who trusts you. Who will show up when it matters?
Social capital gives you access.To opportunities.To support.To the information.
Bondub is built on the theory of social capital. I’ll write more about this later, but for now, let’s talk about the shift that’s already happening.
A few years back, platforms like Clay and Dex started gaining attention. They introduced the idea of Personal CRM, tools to manage relationships just like we manage customers.
I liked the intent. They were built around connection and not content.They charged a subscription.They respected users.But they didn’t go mainstream.
Why?
Because a personal CRM lacks a network effect. It’s built for one person. But healthy relationships are mutual. They are collaborative.
A tool that helps one person track a relationship creates asymmetric weight. That person ends up putting all the effort. It doesn’t feel like a space to grow together.
But these tools opened the door for a new conversation.One,
I’m continuing with Bondub.
We cannot manage too many relationships. There’s a cognitive limit. Dunbar’s number suggests we can only manage around 150 meaningful relationships at once.
80 percent of opportunities like hiring happen internally. But most of us lack strong connections or nurtured relationships. So we miss out.
68 percent of people feel anxious while reaching out. Why? Because the relationship was never nurtured in the first place.
We lack a strategy for relationship building. We often connect with people from the same sector. We don’t know how to balance or diversify our network.
These are real problems.And they cost us in opportunities, in support, in personal growth.
We are ignoring our most valuable asset.That asset is social capital.
Bondub is an app that helps you build real professional relationships by giving you daily, simple actions to strengthen your network and unlock new opportunities.
We’ve crafted Bondub as a system.A system to build trust.To show up for others.To grow relationships that last.
Think of it as your private space.You invite your trusted people.You help them. You introduce them. You collaborate. You grow together.
Let me break it down.
You’ve probably met a lot of people through LinkedIn, Twitter, events, or even classmates and old colleagues.
You exchange contacts.Then life happens.You move on. They move on.We end up collecting connections with no real follow-up.
We don’t know who would show up when we really need someone.We don’t know who in our network could introduce us to an investor.We don’t know who is working in what field.We don’t even know what our actual network looks like.
Bondub helps you own your network.It’s not about hundreds of weak connections.It’s about a few that truly matter.
Bondub gives you 1 to 3 actions daily, based on your goals and network.These are simple but strategic tasks.
Like reaching out to someone you haven’t spoken to in months.Making a warm introduction between two peers.Thanking someone.Offering help.
We track everything so you don’t miss out.
We also have guided goals. Mentors are creating personalized action plans from learning a skill to landing a job, so you’re never lost.
Bondub is your system to grow, supported by peers and mentors.We reward trust.We reward showing up.We reward the good in you.
And the best reward?You build your social capital.
We are a small team of four working hard to bring this vision to life.If you believe in it, if you want to help, invest, or join, shoot me an email at hello@bondub.com.
Visit bondub.com to get early access.
Let’s build a future where relationships matter again.Where trust is earned through actions.Where your network is your greatest strength.
Not built by chance.Not by content.But by care.
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